Pam Allen

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A new way of relating

(Above photo is from Bruno Torfs garden in Marysville VIC) Personal relationships with a partner, can be both amongst the most testing and the most exhilarating parts of our lives.  In the early days of our relating we may see our significant other through rose colored glasses and we sigh with the wonder that we …

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Why won’t YOU change?

A huge cause of suffering on the planet is wanting another person to change.           There is an epidemic of wanting other people to change, but unlike a dose of flu, this ‘disease’ is often undiagnosed. Imagine you are walking down the street one day and you run into an old …

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Perfection

When I feel for the word perfection there are a variety of ideas and images.  That which can’t be bettered, is the first.  A cake that comes out of the oven with perfect symmetry, texture and taste. If you are as old as me you may remember the name Nadia Comaneci.  She was a young …

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Psssst. Life Joyfully

Imagine that you were walking down the street one day and you see a poster on the wall advertising the following. Free seminar: Live joyously every day of your life regardless of health status, finances, employment, personal relationships or social interactions.  I wonder if you would go?  The sceptic may assume many things? What’s the …

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Apathy

Apathy……. Anyone got any apathy out there? If you were true to this cause then you couldn’t really be bothered checking. It’s all too hard………. it’s a tired energy…….  One of the favourite expressions of apathy is, “I can’t…. I can’t…. I can’t do it.”  It’s great at keeping us small…… Listless energy.  Sighs. Let’s …

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Joy of Being

“Don’t you go staring out into space now……..Do something!!  Ride your bike, do some sewing, play with the cat, do some drawing, play the piano…….”  My mother’s words stay in my head even today.  “DO something!”  These words came towards me as a child on a number of occasions as my little head drifted off …

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Female & Male Balance

As in all things, consciously or unconsciously we seek out these two energies in order to create a balance within our lives. The words that I use to describe the qualities of the male and female may resonate for you  or not, depending on your experiences of the world.  They are a starting point however …

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Where is Love?

Ah, what a wonderful feeling it is to be in love. To look into the eyes of your beloved, child, sibling, friend, can evoke that wonderful alluring, mysterious feeling that we consciously or unconsciously seek to find in life. Singers can transport us into that feeling, so too can poets, dancers, photographers, plays, paintings; anything …

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Kindness & Positivity

If you listen to the news broadcasts each day, you will hear about wars, gangs, epic weather events, violent deaths, domestic violence, hold ups, political upheaval. It’s interesting that these events are still being viewed by us, the public as news worthy? These happenings place the spotlight on negativity.  I don’t know about you, but …

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Content and Context

What a complex world we live in. Each day we have to process information about so many situations and make decisions about how to respond. On what basis do we make these decisions?  We can fall into the trap of judging people based on the ‘content’ of the situation in front of us. I wonder …

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